I had an unfortunate incident today. I was walking my dog and had to pass a large group of people gathered outside a funeral home on Park ave.(in Bklyn).They didn’t seem all that put out that someone they knew was being laid to rest.In fact they seemed downright jolly;joking and laughing,someone’s recent death a chance to socialize…Anyway, I know that folks tend to be scared of my dog so I tried to be extra respectful and gave them a wide berth.I figured I’d act right even if they weren’t.We were crossing against the light and I began to run and Bozzio did what he usually does if I run when he’s on the leash: starting leaping and biting at the leash.It’s kind of a game we both like but this time he tripped me and I fell and landed on my palms and
skidded a bit on them for good measure.
You’ve heard of road rash,right? I got a light case of it on both palms and on my right knee. And then I did what I do when I hurt myself which is to cry like a little girl.I didn’t realize right away that the people I’d just passed were hooting with laughter at my tumble.But then when I stood up and looked over at the noise I saw they were laughing at me. Apparently my fall was even more amusing than the funeral had been.
And of course I was fully blubbering by then. I wasn’t in that much pain but I was bleeding a little and there was gravel in the cuts and scrapes.I decided to turn around and go back home.I had to walk back past the laughers. I had tears on my face but I was really angry.I said to the one man who had laughed the loudest:”I hope that was funny for you”.
He said “yes, it was thanks very much”. Then I called him a fucking asshole to which he called out “don’t fall again” and to that I yelled “well, I hope you fall on your fucking fat head.” Not a very inspired exchange but at least I got to call him an asshole because that was how I felt about his behavior even before my fall.What kind of person kibbutzes outside funeral proceedings,anyway? A jerk.
Ok, so if someone falls down, I understand the urge to laugh because people falling down can be funny.After all comedians in movies seem to to fall all the time and everyone laughs. But there’s a grace period you ought to wait to see if they’re hurt. And if they begin to cry I suggest it isn’t a matter of humour anymore.
I personally don’t think people falling in the street and skidding on their palms is hilarious because my average intelligence tells me that’s going to hurt.
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If I see someone fall my first concern is their safety, then if they turn out to be ok….I laugh my ass off.
The people you described sound like trash, I’m glad you gave ’em a piece of your mind.