We’re In a Fight

My boyfriend A. and I are in a fight and once again it is movie related.
Last night our routine was totally busted.Instead of one of us making dinner,A. told me his pal O. was coming over and bringing pizza.He did not say that they were going to jam,too. I’d rented a couple more movies and I really wanted to watch them as soon as possible. I have been to the BB about 3 times this past week because going without a DVD player since we were robbed last summer made BB an exciting place with tons of missed movies to choose from. You should try not going to BB for over 6 months.It makes movie renting a lot more fulfilling.
So I already had been waiting to watch Black Dahlia for about 4 days.I was waiting to see it because the last time I thought I could just watch a movie(The Descent) A. had gotten really angry at me for not waiting for him.This made me think that I should probably not make the same mistake with the Black Dahlia.
But as it turns out A. didn’t have much interest in watching it-with or without me.He also didn’t really want to watch The Devil Wears Prada,either.And it was when this last movie was almost an hour in that he announced O. was coming over with pizza.
You try and watch a movie while your bf decides to start telling you about his day.You might wonder as I did why he needed to get all chatty right at that moment whereas he’d been pretty quiet before the movie was put on.
??
And then you try to watch a movie when your bf and his pal decide to start playing an electric guitar and bass both amp’d to about 5 or 6 level… so it was pretty loud…in a room about 3 feet from the livingroom…where the movie was playing….a room without any soundproofing…2 dudes on guitars…going at it while I am trying to hear wtf Meryl Streep is saying to Anne Hathaway in the fucking limo in Paris!!!!
Argh!!!
So I went to the door and watched A. play.When he noticed me he stopped and I said(I forgot to tell you this) so, in 10 minutes you’re going to the studio,right?
O K I forgot this part: A. told me O. was coming over and at 10 pm they were going to the studio.
So after The Devil Wears Prada was over(I’d had to turn the volume up super high to hear the last half hour) I decided to wait until A. and O. had gone to the studio before I tried watching the Black Dahlia.
When I was at the door watching A. play and he stopped and saw me and I asked him if he was going in 10 minutes –he said no.
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I got really mad.
He’d already wrecked the last half hour of The Devil Wears Prada. I decided to wreck his jam session by playing The Black Dahlia at max volume. But before I made this rash split second descision,I announced something like “so then I’ll play this really fucking loud see how you like it” or something like that.
Sure enough about 6 minutes later O. came out and put on his jacket and left and A. stormed out and put on his jacket,leashed up the dog and went out for almost an hour.
When he came back he made himself some coffee( without asking me if I wanted any of course because he was too furious with me) and then went into the bedroom to drink it and not talk to me.He went to sleep without kissing me goodnight and today when I heard him about to leave for work I got out of bed and stood in our bedroom listening to him in the other room and I guess he heard me get up.He was going to just leave but since he heard me get up he came back to the bedroom and kissed me, said he was going to work– and left.
Then to make things even better I saw that the internet and digital tv were disconnected because they weren’t paid.So I had to pay that and it took almost an hour for the service to be restored.
I’m going to go to the city tonight to meet up with my dad and because of this stuuuu-pid fight we are in I want to call it off so that I can try to get A. to like me again when he comes home from work, if he comes home at all but now I can’t because my dad is going to give me a check for all the work I’ve done on his website.And since I just paid 140.00 bucks to get service restored I need the money a lot more now.
I am the one in charge of the cable bill.This means that I pay it and then chase everyone around for a week trying to get them to pay me back.
So now because I need to get that extra money our fight is probably going to be unresolved for another day. I could just call A. and apologize.I should, since I was the bitchy one last night. But the truth is that I apologised for the other fight we had over The Descent and that wasn’t only my fault, it was A.’s as well.Except he just let me take all the blame for it.And the truth is also that he has been acting weird all week. So I’m weirded out. But I’ll probably call him.Like right now. Yikes.